Your dream to live abroad is about to come true. You have checked immigration laws, obtained permits, estimated the cost of living and developed a plan to export your life and work abroad.
But there are aspects of a global relocation that you might have overlooked. So before you sublet your place, loan out your car and put your books in storage, consider how you will manage these five challenges of expatriate life.
1. Managing your money
Thanks to the Internet, tracking bank accounts from anywhere is easy. But what will work overseas mean for your tax bill? U.S. citizens are required to report and pay taxes on money earned globally. You can receive a credit for taxes paid in a foreign country but you still need to file a tax return.
All aspiring expatriates should also take an inventory of the debts they must manage. Your move to another country doesn’t excuse you from paying that student loan bill - but you may be able to seek a deferment.
Moving abroad as a single person brings a host of challenges - even if you speak the local language. But taking a partner, as well as children, compounds the adjustments. Partner happiness, or lack thereof, is the primary reason international assignments fail.
That’s because the so-called “trailing spouse” is often left without the support to ensure that the experience is rewarding for them as well, says Robin Pascoe, a former “trailing spouse” who has written extensively about family relocation issues. She says the foundation for a positive experience must be “put into place from day one.” She adds, “That can mean supporting a home business, ensuring a work permit is obtained, making sure he/she has the right computer equipment … or just a sympathetic ear.”
3. Taking care of you
Living in a foreign country can compromise even the toughest of immune systems. You may find yourself with a particularly bad case of the flu or an infection that is new to you. To make matters worse, drugs that are over-the-counter back home may be only available with a prescription in your new country. Bring along a supply of medicine that you know works for you.
4. Accepting the differences
You already know that you can’t expect ice in your soda and that there may not be a Starbucks or familiar restaurant in your new city. But are you prepared to translate every ingredient for a recipe you want to try? Are you someone who won’t be frazzled when you have to figure out how to find a plumber? Have you ever navigated around a foreign city that lacked street signs? Many aspiring expatriates are captured by the romance of a life abroad but fail to realize that just about every aspect of their daily life will be completely different. It’s essential to adopt a “when-in-Rome” attitude about the ups and downs, because you can’t switch it off.
5. Wherever you go, there you are
Pascoe points out that many people go abroad “thinking they can leave their troubles - and their personalities - behind. The biggest shock is that everything moves with a person, including a propensity for workaholism or any other ‘ism.’ You can’t run away from yourself.” Â
Before you make your decision to live overseas, be honest with yourself about why you’re doing it.







These are good reminders for people considering moving abroad. There are several qualities necessary for the expat, epecially the “trailing”partner, to make his/her life abroad a fruitful time.
1) curiousity about the new culture, people, customs,and about how you fit into that
2) capacity to network to discover new friends and contacts for transporting your old career to your new country, or for creating your new career abroad,
3)Flexibility and openness to new ideas, new learning
4) Risk-taking - ability to try something new, whether it’s wandering around your new neighborhood, or trying out your new language skills
With these qualities, you can reap huge benefits from your expat experience. If you’re a bit short on any of them, you might engage a life/ career coach to give you a jump start.
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I would make sure that you spoke the language of the country you were moving too. Not all locals are receptive to people speaking English around them. I moved to Puerto Rico and had a good knowledge of the language. Thanks to the people around me, I was able to improve my skills.
Great article.
To make it as an expat, here’s a quick tip…
Picture the expats/immigrants that live in your town or city and ask yourself what you expect of them. Then make sure once you are living abroad that you apply those same rules to yourself!